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Many folks who grew up
during the 1930s and 1940s experienced elder care as their
mothers and grandmothers caring for older relatives at home.
There were really no other options back then.
For most families it worked
because fewer wives and mothers were employed outside the home,
so they were available to give care. Life expectancy was much
shorter then, so caring for an aging family member at home was
not a decades-long commitment.
For some families it worked
out beautifully. For others it didn't work well, or comfortably.
Many of our parents and grandparents can tell stories of the
conflicts that arose from having incompatible generations living
under the same roof. Ask them today whether they would like to
live with their children. Some will say "yes, of course." Others
will be horrified at the very idea.
Today, you and your elder
have choices that were unheard of only a few years ago. An older
person can choose to stay home with essential support. Large
assisted living residences and smaller personal care homes are
widely available. A skilled nursing facility might be the right
choice if medical needs are great.
In this section you will
find important information on all the widely available senior
residential options.
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