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Just
about every one would like to live out their days at home. For
most seniors, this is exactly what happens.
But
lack of discussion and planning accounts for a large number of
people having to move out of their homes. These moves might have been
prevented, or at least delayed, if elders and families had made
a few changes to either home or lifestyle, or both.
With
the help of family, friends, and the resources available in your
community, it may be possible for your loved one to stay at home
indefinitely. Remember that "stuff happens", though,
and it's a good idea to have a back-up plan, just in case.
The
first step in deciding whether staying at home is a good option
is an informal
assessment of your elder's current medical and physical needs,
the home, finances, and any possible legal issues.
When
you have a clear idea of where you're starting on your journey
it's easier to plot the route to your destination. If you know
your older loved one's strengths, and where he or she might need
some help, you'll have taken the first step toward making some
informed decisions.
If
you don't feel confident about doing this on your own, or if you
think that the objective eye of a professional would be helpful,
consider calling or help. Professionals can often address issues and
concerns that you might be uncomfortable talking about with your
parent. A trained geriatric professional can often see things
that you might not pick up on or had not considered, as
well.
Once
you've identified what your elder needs right now to stay safely
at home, it's time to check out the
community
support services you might need. Don't focus just on what
you need right this minute. Think ahead to what you might need
in the future, too.
All
but the smallest town or most rural area will have something to
offer that can make care at home easier. Larger
communities will have more variety in available programs and
services.
As
you look at your options, don't overlook your informal network
of family and friends. Make a list of these people, with their
telephone numbers, to have in case of emergency. They can be a
real help with the occasional ride or shopping trip, or for more
regular help with chores, social support and emergencies.
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