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Marjorie was not a well woman, yet she refused
over and over again to
prepare a Will. She didn't see the point
because, as she repeatedly said, "Jim gets
everything, anyway." He lost one-half of Marjorie's share of their estate simply because she had not prepared a Will. This loss put him in a precarious financial position. Without the money from Marjorie's estate he could not afford to pay for enough help to stay safely at home. Instead, he had to sell his home and use that money to pay for care in an assisted living residence. He loved that house, where he and Marjorie had lived together for more than 30 years. To this day I am convinced that having to sell his home and most of his possessions almost immediately after losing Marjorie shortened Jim's life. Intestacy...(dying without having made written instructions for the ownership of your property after your death)...it sounds like a dirty word, and in more ways than one it is. Are you - or is someone you love - still without a Will? Three out of four adult Americans don't have one, you know. Read The Rest of Intestacy
A picture certainly is worth a thousand words. I wish I could find a video for you showing these techniques, but a drawing is better than nothing (if anyone knows of a video showing lifting and transferring techniques on the web, please let me know so I can tell everyone). Lifting and helping someone transfer is a good way to hurt your back if you don't do it carefully and correctly. Done correctly, gravity and the weight of the patient actually help. Study these pictures carefully and you'll be less likely to end up in a back brace. If your elder needs this much assistance to move from bed to chair, your back will be better protected if you're working on a higher bed. If you don't have, or don't want, a hospital bed, bed risers will give you some much-needed extra bed height.
Note From A Reader:
When you are traveling with
someone who will need special accommodations on a
plane or in an airport, it's best to take absolutely
nothing for granted. In a case such as the one
described, in the United States the airport is
responsible for getting a passenger from the boarding
area to the door of the plane. From that point on the
airline is responsible.
We've had digital thermometers for a while, but they're still hard to read in the dark or if you don't see 20/20. I recently came across digital thermometers that also talk: A Talking Oral Thermometer, and a Talking Ear Thermometer. The ear thermometer is particularly helpful if your loved one can't keep from biting on an oral thermometer. It's almost instant, and works especially well with children, too. There are a lot of very helpful products coming out for the sight-impaired. We're adding them to the store as fast as we find them and as fast as our little fingers can upload pictures. Talking digital thermometers are just some of the new things we've added to the Low Vision department of the Corner Store recently. The Corner Store is how we pay for part of the cost of sending you this newsletter, so if you're inclined to shop I always appreciate it if you will check there first.
That's it for this time around. Live Well!
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